I am absolutely horrible at making life decisions. Even the smallest decisions, to me, seem so huge that I suddenly can't breath. Sounds really pathetic, I know. As of late, I have been really hard on myself when it comes to work decisions. I have honestly had 5 jobs in the last 4 months, at which, most of the time, I worked 4 at once. It's quite ridiculous if you ask me. Who needs 4 jobs?!? Well, this girl. At least that is how I think and feel. I feel, because I am off school this semester, that I really need to be bringing home the dough. After beating myself up, struggling to do things I didn't want to do, and a whole lot of not breathing, I have decided, with the help of others, that enough is enough. I need 1 job. Yes, 1. I may not make all the money in the world that I hope for, I may not have all the things I want, I may struggle and stress, but it's still not worth it to me. So the decision is made, but the next part doesn't get any easier. I hate quitting. I hate facing that I can't or do not want to do something. I hate letting people down and, honestly, would work all these jobs until I had a mental break down before I quit. This needs to stop! This is my life and I should do what I want and what is best for me and not worry about anybody else. So much easier said than done, but I'm going to start working on it.
I have let two jobs go already. One was easy (although I am actually still there) and the other one, not so much. I now need to face two more and then I will be left with just the one... plus the other one that I haven't fully let go of, but I'm okay with that.
Wish me luck.
Ugh.
Remembering that I am right where I should be is difficult. Why are things so hard sometimes?
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